Looking for a Great Experienced Divorce Mediator?. . .

“Your life is going great and everything is on track
for a peaceful and predictable future, the thought of Divorce is the last thing on your mind..”

Then one morning you wake up to find yourself, alone in bed, staring up at the nightmare of divorce.”

Mediation is Your Best Possible Solution!

Call me for an appointment at 508-335-0069

Emergency Service is my specialty

I meet with clients on weekends, nights, and of course during the day.


 I coach and Mediate anywhere by tele-conferencing.  We can SKYPE, FACE TIME or Conference Call.

  • No Traveling o a Mediators Office!
  • No sitting across the table at your soon to be EX ‘s nasty looks.
  • Much less confrontational.
  • You go through the Divorce Mediation Process in the comfort of your home or office.

Cost of Mediation

Because you control the mediation process, you control the cost.

The decision making is up to you. . .

Choice Number ONE:     YOU and your SPOUSE keep in control of your divorce by choosing MEDIATION.

To expedite the process;  Download, print and provide the information requested on the forms below.  Be sure to bring the filled out forms with you at our first session.

Divorce mediation-homework



Upon the completion of Your Mediation, I will provide you with a  “Memorandum of Understanding”.  You will then have an Attorney review  the MOU and turn it into a  (Separation Agreement).  In order to Finalize your Divorce, there may be several other forms, including a “Parenting Course” to complete (if underage children are involved).

 To view or download these forms, click on the button below.

Click here for the required forms in a
Massachusetts no-fault divorce.

No-Fault Massachusetts Divorce Forms


  • Choice Number TWO:   YOU and your SPOUSE hire Lawyers to destroy each other and then rely on a  stranger in a black robe to determine your future.      


So many questions, so many right decisions to be made. . .

     The Alimony Reform Act of 2011 contains specific guidelines and structure. I was a member of the Alimony Reform Task Force that drafted the revisions to the antiquated and outdated alimony law. My experience working with the Attorneys and the Legislature and victims of the old law gave me a unique opportunity to understand the issues concerning the parties on both sides of a divorce. I have been credited with the ability to listen and bring all parties to an amicable agreement.

“When I mediate, I educate to get an agreement in the best interests of both parties, and the children involved in your divorce.”

      As YOUR mediator, I will work to keep you in control of the process of divorce and to help you make the best decisions for your future.

Call me today to Schedule a Consultation:  


8 thoughts on “Looking for a Great Experienced Divorce Mediator?. . .”

  1. Steve handled the mediation of my alimony modification with professionalism and prompt attention. I had originally contacted him for advice on what to expect regarding the transition from child support to alimony, because of his expertise and leadership regarding the new reform law. He spelled out in simple terms the role he plays as a divorce mediator, and what advice he could and could not give. Because he is well-connected in the legal community, he was able to reach out and get us peripheral legal advice in such matters as where to file (my ex-wife and I both live in New York State now). When we eventually filed, he walked us through the process, providing us with all the necessary forms, helping us to fill them out correctly, suggesting the best ways to avoid the pitfalls associated with working within the legal system, and guided both my ex-wife and me in how to mentally approach this emotionally charged task. He further accommodated my sporadic travel schedule, conducting a number of three-way conference calls at odd hours, and ultimately saved us both a lot of money, aggravation and the need to travel back and forth to court in Boston. Steve was an immense pleasure to work with and I highly recommend his services.

  2. I was reading some of your comments and was wondering if I could get out of completely paying alimony I will be 62 this yr and have been paying alimony for i don’t know 10 11 yrs at $ 467 a month which turns out to be roughly 6000 a yr and she lives with her boy friend quite often , goes on alot of vacations and so on. And for me i have went on 1 vacation {last year} i took my 3 boys to the indy 500 first time i have ever had a chance to take them some where and now i have to work as hard at 60 mas i did when i mwas 30 something is wrong here that 6000 would look alot better in my pocket then hers and i know a mediatior wont work with us she is after the money

    1. Hi Larry,

      Ending alimony can be a complicated issue. I need to have more information about your divorce in order to help you develop a plan. Please call me to discuss.

      Steve H.

  3. Dear Mr. Hitner,

    PLEASE help us in California getting our laws changed regarding spousal support. I am asking for your help in alimony reform. I have lost my only home, I lost our rental property to my ex, I went bankrupt by being handed ALL of our debt, I lost my life insurance to my ex as well as almost all the furniture. I pay my ex over 1100.00 dollars a month. I am remarried and have a wonderful wife but I am broke every two weeks right after I get paid. I have been ordered a support order for life. My ex no longer works. She gets ssi as well as my monthly payments. I don’t understand how I can be ordered to pay for life. To me this is involuntary servitude which I believe should be unconstitutional per the 13th amendment. Please please please do something about life time alimony. I have already had two heart attacks and the stress is killing me. We are divorced. That should cut all ties. My ex gets to retire for life and I am suffering more than you know. Please help.

    Marcel Elias

    1. I would like very much to try to help you, however, I need to talk to you to do this. Please call me at 508-335-0069.

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